Keep honing your craft and deliver whatever you do, with all the passion you have. People will recommend you, elevate you to new positions and want to be in your company.
The ones who shine the brightest — in pure service to others, are the ones who rise the highest.
My number 1 lesson is to not compare myself to other people. It's basic but true. I think the world is so often set up to pit people against each other "if someones doing this at a certain age then I should be doing this". It forces us to make bad decisions. At school, at university, on grad schemes we're graded and compared to our peers but I've forced myself to let go of that mentality.
There's always someone who will be younger, prettier, smarter, more successful than me, so why allow that negative energy into my life?
I make decisions based on what I want to do, live life to the beat of my own little (weird) drum and fundamentally am happier for it. When you're pushing yourself to try new things you're opening yourself up to a lot of rejection, criticism, people knocking you back. You can listen of course, but fundamentally there's nothing wrong with living life on your own terms. If we start to think about the world as winners, losers, better or worse, we start to feel unsatisfied with what we have and lose our sense of community. Life's tough enough, why add more things to worry about to it?
Founder and Director of Creators Club, a Leadership Coach working with global brands and young people in Education, a regular speaker on Mental Health and Wellbeing and an Author of Feeling Lost and Finding My Way